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Saturday, February 20, 2010

About a day I want to forget...

For airport employees around the country, courtesy and empathy has become part of the basic job description. Not just because those are nice traits in workers, but because in these belt-tightening times, airports are hoping better customer service can help shore up the bottom line...
but wait till you meet the Turkish airlines staff at CSIA, Mumbai.

My long awaited and wholesomely enjoyed summer vacation at home finally came to an end on 31st August. And I was going to catch a plane from Nagpur...all the way to Mumbai, from where I had a connection to Moscow with Turkish airlines. So here, in mumbai on 1st Sept. I met a person whom I'm never going to forget....Mr. Vaibhav Gandre, the incharge supervisor of all the flights of Turkish that night.

Just a bit of history before I start to tell my experiance....
My passport was going to expire in Nov. 2010 so ...I renewed it, as a precaution beforehand....and hence my passport no. on my visa was different. So for this I have to pay around 20 Euros at Moscow airport and also carry both passports with me.


So now, there I was, standing in queue waiting for my boarding pass........wen it was my number, the lady at the counter(another super-intelligent employee) was in doubt. So she called her "Sir"...this guy. I explained him ...and we went over all the details again n again. But I dont know why...this guy was adamant (n din obviously know much about this situation)
"No Ma'm u can't board the flight", was is constant line with his eyebrows up and giving me a look as if I'm a suspected terroist!!
...........................I did everything possible (coz his one line was going to cost my Dad a lot of money!)
I even broke out at the airport....coz I missed my flight, coz I din know wat to do, coz it wasn't possible for my brother or parents to be with me there, coz I dont know much about Mumbai....
you know this feeling of being left behind...its a certain kind of fear which grips your heart and your mind goes blank and all you can think of is.....well, cry! (this feeling is worse than anything bigger...say end of the world!) In those early morning hours at the airport where everyone was on their way somewhere...I was sitting, thinking the picture some hours ago....my dad's still look, my mom's smile...convincing herself she isn't going to cry this time, my brother...and his naughty smile and reminding me of recent aircrashes :) in order to frighten me or something :) :)
my caspar..with his chewstick ..dint know I am going...again for a Year! :) ....................God!!! I'm in tears everytime i remember that...

How easy was it for this guy to say.....And the worst part is..he din't even know the rules, he was in some kind of a trance or something...ego-driven. You know, sometimes I meet many people with whom i just can't get along and moreover for some of them I have this unknown agony...I felt the same for him...


It was all over...I went over to my friends' uncle who helped me get to Russian embassy and it was all sorted out...I got my tickets for the next day...came here...met friends....classes...months have passed.But somewhere I still have that feeling, I can't explain....of being alone, being left behind to take my own decisions....I dont like it at all......
With every passing day, I try to forget it :) :)

11 comments:

  1. well written. u knw how turks are? the same way they wd 've employed their staff. :)i can imagine, wat might 've happened to u, coz i was wid u :. but i can never forget his damn face and ur watery eyes... i feel really sorry for u. :( :(

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  2. hey..first qusetion..who's dat guy in the picture..is he the same airport guy..if yeh..how did u manage to get his picture in your agitation..
    And I am LMAO after reading that 'u cried'..(i know u are an awesome actor.. ;))

    Anywayz..on serious note..."I feel sad for u, u had to go thru all this,oh u wer crying on airport.. ohh... blah..blah.." not my words..
    In my view the best part in the bolg was 'ur bro tellin u the stories abt the air crashes right before u wer boring a aircraft..that was funny...and yeh..i like dat one too..'casper din know u wer leaving..'

    baki, nicely written..very expressive..keep rockin..

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  3. @anand: I found him on orkut...there i got his pic :)


    @pnil: thank u thank u :P :)
    waise all thanks to ur uncle that I was able to be back here the next day itself :) Dayanand mama helped a lot, really!!

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  4. :D..found da explanation for da pic in da Comments..was wondering al da time Y the same Guy would pose for u??!!??..:D
    nice work finding him on Orkut..Detective Huh...!!
    n writing big...!!
    Nice one..:)

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  5. Also, must be Intresting to see U CRY..!!!!!..:D

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  6. I can really understand u how it feels whn u r left all alone to take ur decisions... Life is full of surprises... The best thing of life is tht whn u r in such situations ur mind makes u remeber ur loved ones... I dont want u to cry, b brave and bold, u have a long way to go... One fact if u wnt to forget something thn the best think is to not rember or think about it, coz if u say tht i wnt to remember so and so thing tht means u r repeating it twice to urself... so dont think ... I really liked ur honesty to describe a bad situation... Keep it up:)

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  7. sad story...
    humm... but Mr. Incharge is Handsome :p

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  8. #### vaibhav ....i think u know the 1st word i wanted to mean....and 2nd thing is while im writing u this after saw ur story,im in the bus,on the way to kiev...im going india and i LOST my immigration sleep...:(
    I have flight today.dont know what will happen...may be ur story will repeat with me on different way...GOD BLESS ABHISEK DEY....:(

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  9. hahaha...do i get some credit to find this guy out ;)

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  10. yeah why not.... :) :)
    next time u see him...give him a stern look :P (or maybe a kick)

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